Green flags (ongoing)

in no particular order

• Doesn’t smoke/vape
• <2k insta followers, mostly inactive from social media
• Emotionally mature
• Growth mindset
• Bold
• Leave u after hanging out feeling energized not drained
• Bring out a good side of u
• Feel like u can talk to them uncensored
  • Comfortable with / to some extent enjoys looking like an idiot in public
• Does not always rely on u to lead/initiate the conversation
• Good relationship with parents
• Watched Disney channel as a kid
• Has one or more siblings (bonus if at least one is a brother)
• Played some music or sport consistently growing up
• Comfortable doing activities alone (like eating out, visiting a museum etc.)
• Not woke
• Doesn’t have a “hate all men” complex
• Not self-sabotaging
• Default optimistic, doesn’t complain often or without good reason
• Good sense of humor/laughs a lot
• Can keep up with the banter
• Does not get offended easily
• Open minded
• Asks at least one question in conversation
• Works out (lifts, run, plays sports)
• Good body but doesn’t need to blatantly show it online (by posting thirst traps)
• Likes to hosts stuff or has hosted before
• Doesn’t have tattoos (or if so, discrete small ones)
• Has traveled solo before (or would be open to it)
• Not judgemental
• Self-aware
• Inclusive, esp. in in-group gatherings/dynamics (if you’re trying to include new people, and not just talk to your good friends, that’s hot)
• Grounded
• Good taste (music, reading, fashion etc.)
• Unique/controversial takes
• Earnest
• Proactive
• Not entitled, doesn’t have princess syndrome
• In a group setting in a bar or club, will prioritize friends over a guy hitting on her (doesn’t run off with a guy for validation)

With ❤️,
Amir