Green flags (ongoing)
green flagsin no particular order
- Doesn’t smoke/vape
- <2k insta followers, mostly inactive from social media
- Emotionally mature
- Growth mindset
- Bold
- Leave u after hanging out feeling energized not drained
- Bring out a good side of u
- Feel like u can talk to them uncensored
- Comfortable with / to some extent enjoys looking like an idiot in public
- Does not always rely on u to lead/initiate the conversation
- Good relationship with parents
- Watched Disney channel as a kid
- Has one or more siblings (bonus if at least one is a brother)
- Played some music or sport consistently growing up
- Comfortable doing activities alone (like eating out, visiting a museum etc.)
- Not woke
- Doesn’t have a “hate all men” complex
- Not self-sabotaging
- Default optimistic, doesn’t complain often or without good reason
- Good sense of humor/laughs a lot
- Can keep up with the banter
- Does not get offended easily
- Open minded
- Asks at least one question in conversation
- Works out (lifts, run, plays sports)
- Good body but doesn’t need to blatantly show it online (by posting thirst traps)
- Likes to hosts stuff or has hosted before
- Doesn’t have tattoos (or if so, discrete small ones)
- Has traveled solo before (or would be open to it)
- Not judgemental
- Self-aware
- Inclusive, esp. in in-group gatherings/dynamics (if you’re trying to include new people, and not just talk to your good friends, that’s hot)
- Grounded
- Good taste (music, reading, fashion etc.)
- Unique/controversial takes
- Earnest
- Proactive
- Not entitled, doesn’t have princess syndrome
- In a group setting in a bar or club, will prioritize friends over a guy hitting on her (doesn’t run off with a guy for validation)